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James J Gross
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Managing Partner of Thyden Gross & Callahan, LLP, a law firm in Chevy Chase, Maryland. Mediator, collaborative lawyer and arbitrator. Author or co-author of four books, “File for Divorce in Maryland, Virginia and the District of Columbia”, “Money and Divorce”,“Fathers’ Rights (The Best Interest of Your Child Includes You)” and "Splitxville". Editor of two blogs, “Maryland Divorce Legal Crier” and “Fathers’ Rights (Not Just Every Other Weekend)”. Speaker on family law at various seminars and appearances on television and radio. Selected among top lawyers in Maryland and DC by Super Lawyers Magazine and Washingtonian Magazine, rated “Superb” by and “av” by Martindale-Hubbell.
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You can read more of my life experiences if you want to know how I got here. I was born in Jefferson City, Missouri, and grew up in Hannibal, Missouri, boyhood home of Mark Twain. When I was 16, I took a correspondence course and passed a government test to obtain a First Class Radio Telephone Operator License, and got a job as an announcer, news reporter and engineer at my dad’s radio station.
I studied Chemical Engineering at the University of Missouri in Columbia, and graduated in 1970 with a BSChE. Procter & Gamble hired me to work in its International Division in Cincinnati, Ohio. I was there for about a year when Uncle Sam drafted me for the Viet Nam War. I spent a year producing television shows for the Signal Corp. at Fort Gordon, Georgia, and another year working on long range patrol rations as a chemical engineer at the U.S. Army Labs in Natick, Massachusetts.
When I got out of the army, I went to law school at the University of Missouri in Columbia, where I made the law review and clerked for the Public Defender. I graduated with a JD in 1975. The Federal Communications hired me to come to Washington, DC, and work as an attorney in the Broadcast Division. After two years, Satellite Business Systems, a partnership of IBM, Comsat and Aetna. During that time, I earned a Master of Laws in Taxation from Georgetown University in 1982.
Trammel, Rand, Nathan & Lincoln hired me from Satellite Business Systems after two years, and I set up my own practice a year after that. I merged that firm into Amram, Hahn & Gross where I was the managing partner and worked on real estate tax appeals. Whiteford, Taylor and Preston hired me from that firm, and I co-founded Thyden Gross & Callahan, LLP, a year later.
I am past president of Metropolitan Washington Mensa and the Collaborative Law Society. I have served on the Board of Directors of Sheet Metal Manufacturing, Inc., Affiliated Community Counselors, Inc., and the DC Capitols Track and Field Club. I play racketball and I live in Chevy Chase, Maryland, with my wife, two sons and two cats.
Lawyer, Author, Master of Laws in Tax, Highest Avvo Rating. Be constructive about your divorce
Practice Areas
3
Practice Areas
Divorce and Separation
40%
Family
40%
Business
20%
Fees and Rates
Awards
2013 2010
Licenses
Licensed in Maryland for 32 years
State: Maryland
Acquired: 1994
No misconduct found
Licensed in District of Columbia for 49 years
State: District of Columbia
Acquired: 1976
No misconduct found
Licensed in Missouri for 50 years
State: Missouri
Acquired: 1975
No misconduct found
Location
THYDEN GROSS AND CALLAHAN, LLP
(301) 246-2892
Mobile
5425 Wisconsin Avenue, Suite 600, Chevy Chase, MD, 20815-4639
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Posted by anonymous | January 08, 2021 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation
Thank you, I am so impressed!
I am extremely pleased that I hired Jim Gross. Before and during our first conversation, I was quite nervous, stressed and unsure what to do and what to even say. His calm demeanor was reassuring and immediately made me feel at ease and protected. He handled my case with professionalism and in the...
James Gross
Replied last January 08, 2021Your autographed copy of Money & Divorce is on the way. I love helping clients like you successfully find their way through the thicket of family and divorce laws. And I appreciate the feedback! -- Jim
Posted by Sonja | September 25, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody
Successfully handled my case!
I contacted several lawyers before finding James, and I did not like how bombastic they were. James is methodical, listens, and works effectively. I had a nasty custody case and a very difficult ex who was out for punishment. James and his colleagues handled his antics with aplomb. They also worked t...
Posted by Joseph | July 12, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Divorce & Separation
Nothing But the Best!
Jim Gross handled my divorce proceeding flawlessly. His legal advice was right on the mark throughout the process. His nudging of my spouse's attorney was very effective when progress became stalled. Jim exudes an aura of confidence and competence which was very reassuring as the matter moved ...
Posted by Lynda | May 14, 2014 | Divorce & Separation
Knowledgable, responsive divorce attorney
Divorce is stressful. I hired Mr. Gross because of his motto, "the way to fire is with water." And throughout my sometimes acrimonious divorce, Mr. Gross's calming, kind attitude towards everyone involved diffused many a difficult moment. I appreciated Mr.Gross's keeping me focused when I would g...
Posted by Laura | August 23, 2013 | Divorce & Separation
Excellent, Knowledgeable & Extremely Responsive
I hired Mr. Jim Gross to help enforce a Separation Agreement contract and mediate. He would respond almost immediately to all of my questions, emails, calls and was always honest without being brutal (but didn't sugarcoat anything either). He was always extremely level headed, courteous and professio...
James J Gross's Lawyer Endorsements
"Top-notch business attorney who is dedicated to client success."
"Jim and I have worked together for many years. His knowledge of family law is exceptional. Whenever I have a question about the law or a problem with a case, he is the first lawyer I ask. It's a pleasure to offer my endorsement."
"Jim is a compassionate human being and a genuine counselor at law. I learned a great deal from him that has been helpful to me in my practice."
"I endorse this lawyer's work. Jim is a knowledgeable and well respected family law attorney. As a fellow family law attorney, I look forward to this weekly newsletter - Divorce & Family Law - with his updates on the law and his insights regarding the impact that divorce and separation have on individuals."
"Jim is a bright and articulate lawyer who I have had the privilege of working with. He takes the practical approach of trying to figure out how to get something done. He is ethical and professional at all levels."
"I met Jim when we worked on different sides in a highly contested custody case. We didn't always agree, but JIm was a strong advocate for his client's positions and he protected her rights at all times throughout his involvement in the case. He did an excellent job for his client under very difficult circumstances."
"I endorse this lawyer's work."
"I endorse this lawyer's work. He does a great job for his clients. He is civil and reasonable with opposing counsel."
"Jim is one of the best family law lawyers I know; in fact, he is one of the best lawyers I know. He's extremely intelligent and an expert in family law and business law. I've referred cases to him and have consistently heard wonderful things about him. I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone needing a dependable, experienced and knowledgeable expert in the field of family law."
"I endorse this lawyer's work."
"I endorse this lawyer's work. I have worked with and have known Jim for over ten years. His work is undoubtedly among the best I have seen and he is the consummate professional. He is held in high regard by his clients and those in the community. His contributions to the legal community have enriched the practice."
"James Gross is a great writer and a caring attorney. I recommend his book Fathers' Rights to male clients who are facing custody problems. His blogs Fathers' Rights and Maryland Divorce Legal Crier are always interesting, caring and informative. I think anyone who has Jim for a lawyer is a very lucky person."
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Experience
Honors
2025
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2025
Best Family Law Practice in the DC Metro Area, Expertise
2025
AV Preeminent, Avvo
2024
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2024
Best Family Law Practice in the DC Metro Area, Expertise
2024
AV Preeminent, Avvo
2023
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2023
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2023
Best Family Law Practice in the DC Metro Area, Expertise
2023
AV Preeminent, Avvo
2022
Best Family Law Practice in the DC Metro Area, Expertise
2022
AV Preeminent, Avvo
2022
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2022
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2021
Best Family Law Practice in the DC Metro Area, Expertise
2021
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2021
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2020
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2020
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2019
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2019
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2018
Maryland & DC Super Lawyers, Super Lawyers
2018
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2017
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2017
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2016
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2016
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2016
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2015
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2015
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2015
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2014
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2014
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2014
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2013
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2013
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2013
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2012
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2012
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2012
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2010
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2010
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2010
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2009
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2009
Top Divorce Attorneys, Washingtonian Magazine
2009
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2009
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2008
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2008
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2008
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2007
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2007
Washington DC Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2007
Maryland Super Lawyers, Law & Politics Magazine
2006
Quality of Life, Bar Association of DC
1988
AV Preeminent 5.0 out of 5 Peer Review Rated, Martindale-Hubbell
Work Experience
1990 - Present
Managing Partner, THYDEN GROSS AND CALLAHAN, LLP
1989 - 1990
Of Counsel, Whiteford, Taylor & Preston
1983 - 1989
Partner, Amram, Hahn & Gross, PC
1977 - 1979
Attorney, Satellite Business Systems
1975 - 1977
Attorney, Federal Communications Commission
Associations
1994 - Present
Maryland State Bar Association
1994 - Present
Montgomery County Bar Association
1976 - Present
District of Columbia Bar
2002 - 2008
Collaborative Law AssociationFounding Member and Past President
1982 - 2008
Metropolitan Washington MensaPast President
1976 - 2008
Bar Association of the District of Columbia
Education
1982
Georgetown University Law Center
LL.M - Master of Laws
1975
University of Missouri - Columbia School of Law
JD - Juris Doctor
1970
University of Missouri, Columbia
BS - Bachelor of Science
Speaking Engagements
2009
KMOX Radio
Divorce in a Recession
2009
Comission for Women
Pro Se Divorce
2009
Comission for Women
Negotiating a Separation Agreement with Your Spouse
Publications
2025
Thyden Gross and Callahan LLP
Legal Crier Blog
2013
2006
Sphinx Legal (Second Edition)
File for Divorce in Maryland, Virginia and the District of Columbia
2006
Sphinx Publishing
Money and Divorce
2006
Sphinx Publishing (Second Edition)
Fathers' Rights (The Best Interest of Your Child Includes You)
Languages
English
Activity
Legal Answers
Legal Answers
Q&A
Where should I file for divorce, DC or Maryland?
05 Jan 2010
Q&A
What is my first step to a divorce in the state of Maryland
01 Dec 2009
Q&A
Can me and my husband live in the same home while we are seperated ?
16 Nov 2009