Thomas E Gay

After spending 18 months trying to fight for custody of my son without any representation, I hired Mr. Gay. Within months of hiring Mr. Gay I had custody of my son. He is aggressive and relentless. His dedication to my case was impressive. As a service member stationed in California, I need an attorn...ey who could work with me regardless of our distance. Mr. Gay was very good about communicating with me throughout the entire process. This was my first experience dealing with a lawyer and I couldn't have been more impressed with his professionalism. His knowledge of Delaware's family law is impeccable. I would recommend him in a heartbeat! He's what I would describe as an intelligent pit bull who embraces common sense and a "winning mindset." Thank you Mr. Gay for all of your hard work!!

Mr. Thomas Gay did a remarkable job with my custody case. I considered it a great thing that he was busy bc that shows how high in demand he is and for good reason. He was very open and honest with me from the beginning. He was so knowledgeable of the law and how people work in these cases that he ac...tually could tell me how my ex of 16 yrs would respond to something and he was always dead on. I have an enormous amount of respect for Tom Gay and have already recommended him to a few friends going through divorce. I will continue to recommend him and cannot brag his professionalism and people skills up enough. I am SO thankful to have found him. He is worth every penny!!!

My experience was not good. Mr. Gay seems very stressed most of the time, which trickles down to the client. In many encounters, both on phone and in person, he hinged on arrogant (and I'm being kind) and instead of trying to instill even the smallest amount of "calm" in a very stressful situation (...inherent in the divorce/custody arena) he exacerbated anxiety in his own client. Many times I asked myself "who's side is he on?" and I'm not easily offended. He seems well versed in family law and I imagine his edgy personality is useful in a courtroom setting, but he needs to be more "judicious" in its use and to whom it's directed. I suspect he has too large a case load - which is not good for anyone. Very happy to have my case concluded, for many reasons.