Can you modify a pending H1B petition with i140 information and extended client letter

It really is not a good idea to try to amend the filing already made.

Can I get H1B Visa transferred even if I have never been to US?

Your first step will be to find an employer that can file for you.

Can my son get any legal status if he came to the US in 2011? i dont have any legal status either

It does not appear that he can get status right now based on the facts that you presented.

Can i go to USA if report to fbi is true?

The only way to find out if this is true is to make the trip.

Delay in processing I-485 asylum based. Could traffic citation be the reason?

The main reason for the delays is that USCIS does not have enough employees to handle all of the applications they get in a timely manner.

If sponsored by my friends company with guaranteed employment would I be eligible for a work visa and if so what type of visa?

Your friend should consult with an immigration attorney to determine whether you meet any requirements for an employment based visa.

Yes you can get a social security number for your child but you will have to show the child is included in the application.

Administrative penalty, traffic ticket, citizenship

The matter is not serious and does not rise to the level of a deportable offense. However, you will need to prove the fines were paid.

Si yo inicio otra relacion con otro hombre y me embarazo esto afecta el VAWA?

The best thing to do is get help from an immigration attorney.

What is the next step ..and how long for it?

How much time depends on the country the beneficiary is from and what the relationship is. The next step will be consular processing.