Is there any way I can bring him to come live with me to the US?

Yes you can bring him to the United States. You need the help of an immigration attorney that handles foreign adoptions.

EAD renewal on pending asylum

Read the instructions, they are actually quite clear.

You will need to apply for a new card using form I-90. You are also eligible for citizenship. Ever think of filing an N-400?

If I give them my authorization, won't they know I am an illegal immigrant? Will it affect my chances of getting in?

Well what would you like to volunteer for? That may make a difference. Perhaps you should look at applying for DACA.

Yes you can absolutely send a personal check for the I-130.

That all depends on the employer and you.

Yes you can file the VAWA petition while the other petitions are pending.

Has been sentenced for third DUI for 120 days is doing 67 days total and release date is febuary 7th 2015.

This person will not be able to stay in the US because of the prior deportation unless an application has already been filed and approved for being...

Do I wait for the NVC to expire then apply for extension?Or do I apply for the K1 visa and push the interview as far as I could?

First step is to decide when your fiancé wants to come to the US.

Can my joint sponsor help me if the only earning is alimony ?

Yes the joint sponsor's alimony can be used but it may be better to get a different joint sponsor.