How long am I supposed to wait now?

The I-130 takes about 5 to 6 months before the interview.

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How do I do a J-2 waiver?

USCIS has a form I-612 that must be filed in order to get the foreign residency requirement.

Is this possible (i.e. retroactive visa cancellation as college said).Can my past visa be cancelled retroactively ?

Pay the balance of your bill now so you can stop worrying.

Yes two different employers can file PERM applications for the same person at the same time.

Is your driver's license automatically suspended or terminated once you've reached an illegal status?

Your driver license is still valid. A police officer may however be able to tell you are out of status as the Department of Homeland Security...

What is the G-325 form? Should I fill out one for each application.

The form is for biographical data. Look it up on the USCIS website in the forms section.

Yes you will need to take biometrics again. After you file your applications USCIS will send a receipt notice then a biometrics notice.

How can I find an experienced and LBGT friendly immigration attorney ?

Most experienced immigration attorneys can handle your situation. Check online with AILA to find an attorney near you.

Yes you can leave the country but if your case is not reopened or not approved you will have to have a new visa to enter the US.

The child born after the expiration of 245(I) is not eligible as the relationship did not exist until after the sunset of 245(I).