Do I resign amicably with my employer who is going to try to terminate my employment either way?

It seems like a good opportunity to negotiate favorable terms.

How and what legal right do I have to sue my father for him stealing from my business?

Wow that is really messed up. You will have to sue him to get back your business.

Why would 2 docket sheets have 2 different sentencing amounts? And no one will tell you why.

Docket sheets don't mean anything the only thing that counts is the actual court file.

If he violated PFA for contacting me now his probation officer put a detainee on him how long will he be in jail

Possibly a long time. At some point a GAGNON hearing will be set up at the behest of the PO.

What are her rights to be kept from a fearful abusive situation

Not sure what the question is here but get him locked up if he is violating a PFA.

Do u think this physician will try to take me to court for this?

You could consider removing the post. Otherwise there is not much advice to give until you actually get sued.

Can I drop the PFA violation

I understand your situation. You are trying to get the guy some help. The best help now is hire a lawyer.

Usually a DUI only goes back ten years.

I want to know how do I get the no contact order lifted or dropped and the chargers as well

Its possible but remember they are now the charges of the DA and not yours anymore. His best move is to have a lawyer fight for him and get him out...

Do I have a leg to stand on to get any compensation? If they decide to go bankrupt am I still on the hook for a non-compete?

Sounds like a big mess. Sorry it did not work out. You would need to evaluate the entire situation with a lawyer including the non complete.