Will she have to leave or can she stay?

I don't know what the facts are. Is there a lease? Who is on the lease? If there is a notice to quit then you would review the lease to see what...

How can I prove to the courts that this is mental abuse he is putting me through I want it to stop because I want to see mt son

Sounds like a bad situation if you cannot afford a lawyer to help you speak to the woman against abuse hotline.

If he ran off with my daughter will I get help getting her off of him if I file a protection from abuse order.

This does sound like a PFA situation. Speak to the women against abuse hotline.

What do I do in this situation?

Sounds bad I would just quit and sue him in small claims.

Is it ok for a public school to do nothing about an autistic student that repeatedly abuses her aid and teacher on a daily basis

Very sad situation. Yes if the school continues to ignore it you should get a lawyer involved.

If it is a judgment against you then any of your assets are subject to lien

Can my boss make me change the original incident report to read what she thinks it should say, or make me add an addendum?

Lying is wrong and can only get you into trouble.

How do I go about getting our belongings back?

well sadly you would have to file a small claims action against them but if you moved it may not be worthwhile

Can i withhold money from a contractor who refuses to provide W-9 Form

Why not but then they file action against you. Speak to your accountant.

My question is what is the "recommended time period"?

I would take this right away to your lawyer and discuss it is very important.