Defendant failed to respond to complaint

If the service is proper, you need to perfect a Default Judgment

Am I still legally responsible for an 18 year old who is still in high school?

you are not responsible.

Small claims court?

You should have the ring back

What are the chances that I will receive a citation in the mail for disorderly conduct?

There is a good chance you will be receiving a citation in the mail. You will need an experienced defense attorney to represent you

How can I be charged with simple assault, when I was never arrested?

You need to retain a criminal defense attorney, Please do not post any more details on line.

How can I get my arrest warrant cleared w/o turning myself in?

Unfortunately, there is no way around turning yourself in. Often, you will have a bail set and posted on the same day

You have 30n days to file an appeal and have your case heard in the court of common pleas. You will need an attorney

How long to get a asnswe from judge

Your bf needs an attorney licensed in both PA and NJ

I do not see a question here. You should go to a "Find Lawyer" section on this website and retain an experienced family law attorney

It looks like his last one will be his 3rd offense DUI