Am I able to withdrawal money out of my 401k to pay marital bills.

You may need to account for that at the time of equitable distribution

I was recently charged with 1st time summary offense of criminal mischief, i plead not guilty. what is my next step?

You need an experienced criminal defense attorney

Will this person see jail time (felony)

This is really a Criminal Defense question but I agree with my colleague. There is no way we can answer that question

My ex is suing me 4 contempt when he refused to sell our house in 2005 or buy me out 4 $60k. Fwd to july 2013: I get $25.00???

You most certainly need an attorney

When can I leave home with my mother to live by myself in New York State

If you are over 18 - today

Why are you lawyers so awesome ?

Good

My step-daughters aunt is getting me charged with simple assault but she was argue with my girlfriend not me can charges be drop

You can try and deal with this serious charge by hiring a criminal attorney

This is the State Police number

Does my live in girlfriend of 7 years have any legal rights at my home.

No

Can charges that stem from a traffic violation be dismissed if the traffic violation is dismissed due to insufficient informatio

My colleagues are absolutely correct. But we will need more information to give an in depth answer