How can I go about dividing my 401K even though my ex-spouse agreed and disclosed in the SA that they didn’t want any of it?

In my experience, yes, you could probably modify it if you both agree to that, and then you will need an attorney to get that in writing and draft...

My ex was awarded half of my pension, it is clearly stated in the divorce decree. Do a QRDO also need to be filled out?

If it's a private employer plan, you must have a QDRO to split any benefits. But the QDRO is not something you "fill out." It is an Order signed by...

Can you legally cancel and employees medical insurance with out notice

If you left the job, they must notify you. Did they cancel because you didn't pay the premium or your share of the premium?

How can my brother's wife receive his pension benefits now that he has died? Our mother is the nominated beneficiary.

Under the law a spouse must get the pension benefits--it's mandatory. Are you sure they are pension benefits?

Can I correct a QDRO I paid to have done?

Probably, however, you need to put everyone on notice if you change the DRO. In NY the ex-spouses are not required to sign anything, but they or...

Your wife may, and should, make sure the Domestic Relations Order is drafted, preapproved by the former employer of her ex, submitted to the court...

In tn is the spouses 401k split between them

Most states say that retirement funds saved during the marriage (and any gains or losses on those) are marital property and subject to division on...

I have a problem with Blue Cross Blue shield dropping my insurance.

Is the insurance through your former employer? You need an ERISA attorney to review the paperwork and actions to this point.

How long can cigna review a short term disability case?

Under ERISA they have 45 days to decide your claim. They can tell you or ask for an extension if they do it within the 45 days and there is a good...

Ex-husband won't sign the final QDRO paper from troyan. What do I need to do petition the court? How do I go about it myself?

Not much. I think you need a lawyer. You are entitled to gains on your marital share, just as if it had been separated at that time and was in an...