Relocation and custody

I agree with the previous response. It is a NC laws question.

What are my options when my ex stopped paying me spousal support?

This is often an issue. You should call your lawyer. Has your ex looked for other work?

Not mirandized and time served?

Your question brings up a number of issues, but not in a logical order. Based on what you say here it may be possible for an experienced criminal...

How to get a court appointed attorney

It may be difficult to get him a Court appointed lawyer. Call legal aid in the jurisdiction for further information

How should I proceed?

You should call the lawyer, discuss it with him. He is not permitted to charge for your discussion regarding the bill. Confirm what you discussed...

Can I sue? or compel?

Some important facts are missing from your question. Is the father living with the mother or are they separated? If so, she can seek support for...

Can I change who claims a child during a support modification?

It will depend on the divorce judgment language.

As both trustee and beneficiary is there a way for me to buy the house that is not considered self dealing?

What does the Trust say? Do you both live there?

You should speak with an attorney about your rights in this area. This is a sad story but filled with a lot of facts that need to be explained....

Can I get legal status? Can the father of my son be obliged to pay child support through distance if say I move out to Russia?!

You will need to speak with an immigration attorney and a custody / relocation attorney.