Is it slander to post on FB, if it's true? I retracted, and apologized to groups.Is it harassment to call often warn/tell her?

Your story sounds terrible. Unfortunately your facts are jumbled up. It seems that you are concerned with a defamation suit. If what you said was...

Speak with an attorney about this before you file a modification petition.

What can I do to stop him? Can I ask for compensation for defaming he has caused?

It will be a he says she says sort of conflict. And the subject matter of the alleged defamation is slippery. You really should speak with your...

What expression would you recommend? Or, if unable to answer where would you direct me with this question?

Actus reus is a strong possibility.

Not sure what you are asking. Legal writing involves citing law - mostly word for word. Plagiarism suggests claiming the work as your own. Legal...

If we place a co-op apartment in my disabled brother in law's name, what type of medicaid benefits will be affected?

May I suggest you speak with an attorney versed in Medicare. You may be able to title the coop in a trust and avoid impacting benefits.

Can I take my mother to court or prove to her that I can use this against her in court that she uses the money for her needs ?

Your mother decides how to use the money. If you feel you are not being cared for properly you may want to discuss it with your mother or...

Who is responsible for this?

You should seek out a lawyer to help you through this. Your child has rights and you should enforce those rights. Call a lawyer and learn all the...

What does "Of counsel represent ?

Generally that means the lawyer handling the case is not the elected official but a deputy or assistant. For all practical purposes you need not...

Unfortunately this is up to the Judge. It sounds as if it was a complicated matter which may take a while for the Court to digest and analyze. Fast...