Yes, If you filed the Family Offense Petition you can withdraw your petition and vacate the Order of Protection. The Attorney for the child can...

You friend can serve your husband. He needs to be over 18 and not serve him on Sunday. He will also need to fill out an affidavit of service.

He can stop contributing to his 401K. The look back period can go back to the marriage date. Dissipation of marital assets is very hard to prove.

if my spouse fails to pay amount she owes on credit card

You could be responsible for her debts in a divorce proceeding when the judge orders equitable distribution.

Your child will not dictate his time with his father and his wishes will not be taken into account in court, he is to young. I would file a...

Can she have gotten a divorce without me signing papers ?

The answer is yes. If you were properly served the Summons and Complaint she can get a divorce. The question you need to be asking did she receive...

Can I be forced to pay child support for my child when my rights were legally terminated years ago and she has now been adopted?

Once your child was adopted you have obligation to support the child.

Is my ex husband responsible for paying car insurance?

The car is marital property you received in your divorce. You will need to pay the insurance unless otherwise set forth in your divorce.