Will the irs take your entire ssdi back pay if you owe back taxes

You need to secure from IRS, ASAP, a "collection alternative," e.g., an Offer-in-Compromise. With a collection alternative in hand, you would not...

Your ex-husband needs to pursue with IRS, ASAP, a "collection alternative," so that levies and other enforced collection activities cease.

How can I decipher where the IRS wants info for just the taxpayer versus the taxpayer and spouse in the OIC forms?

Offers-in-Compromise are very complex creatures. Accordingly, you are doing yourself a disservice by proceeding without guidance from an...

Can the state give money owed to me to the irs?

You need to deal with your underlying tax problem. In this regard, IRS offers several "collection alternatives" to enforced collection, i.e., levies.

Nothing prevents you from filing. Indeed, failure to file may subject you to very serious civil and criminal penalties.

What is best way to file taxes this without being penalized for husbands non filed taxes 4yrs ?

Your husband is the one with very serious tax problems, i.e., non-filing. And he needs to address same ASAP!

What can i do to keep my settlement i won in retaliation suit if i owe the irs

You need to be pro-active and pursue, with IRS, a "collection alternative," such as an Offer-in-Compromise or currently not collectable ("CNC")...

How much time would you be facing for filing false tax returns totaling over one million dollars?

Your "friend" needs to contact, ASAP, a tax attorney experienced in criminal tax matters.

Can my wages be garnished if I'm a 1099 employee?

Yes. However, your real problem is you have an out of control tax situation. And you need to pursue a "collection alternative" ASAP!

Do i have to file a tax return?

Yes. And non-filing is a very serious situation, which you need to address ASAP!