Does Dad's trust receive the money he would have?

Your question requires a bit more information in order to provide a proper response

Does family count as day care??

Family should not count but it will in part depend on the language of your agreement which needs to be reviewed and possibly modified by way of...

Should i apply for custody now? or pay child support and apply at a later date

Act now... Far harder to change things once established!

Can I have the court order on alimony changed back to original because of mistake by support magistrate?

A motion is needed...with the transcript...and quickly

How can I request and adjournment?

Need to get the courtroom fax number and send in a letter reciting need to adjourn and why. I am in this court every week...if it is the first...

What are my options to get compensation from this lawyer?

How much had you paid your lawyer? He began services but then apparently let the case get dismissed... But why? If unable to serve you husband then...

When splitting marital home, if buying out, when is the appraisal done? At divorce filing or agreement signing if years apart?

Typically you would use present day value but your agreement may specify other provisions or factors.

No reason to think that the owner will not be able to get the car back.

No reason to think you cannot travel based on a CD. In Suffolk, I have never heard of such a prohibition.

Can my husband adopt my daughter

Both of the prior answers are incorrect; you new husband can adopt but the procedure us a bit more complex