If a prosecutor offers a violation from a misdemeanor is it good to take it even though your innocent. ??? and would affect me?

Ask your attorney. We cannot advise you about such decision. There are positives and negatives to each choice.

I forgot about a ticket and forgot to go to court, what to do?

Go immediately. do not stress jail for this type of offense!

My wife call cop when i was not home said i show her knife and ask for gold and told i show her to knife

You need an attorney. This is serious and you can be convicted on her allegations alone!

How much time or what would the fine be for 2 misdemeanor in NYC?

No one can guess this answer. It all depends on the location, the judge, the defendant's prior records etc....

I got a COD for a felony, but it's been over a year and no word. What do I need to do, if anything?

Contact your lawyer!

How realistic is it for the judge to allow me to drop the charges.

Not very. Tell the DA how you feel but it's in the DA and Judge's hands!

Willi likely do jail time for a 1st time arrest of grand larceny of $1500

NO!

What happens?

It should be dismissed if you were not arraigned but saw the judge and the DA did not answer ready.

Is a traffic ticket a civil or criminal offense?

Not criminal but jail is technically a possibility.

Expungement and sealing of these records are not an option at this time.