I agree with the above. If it's a true NTA, it's for court and a problem. That being said if you had an interview and they need follow up it could...

Possibly. Especially the accusation of FMLA abuse. You definitely should consult with an attorney.

Rfe letter (I-751) ?

You need to provide recent years leases and lots of evidence you've been married and living together last 2 years.

Police rarely text unless they know you and you know them. A lot of scams. Remember you have the right to remain silent. If you suspect you did...

Will this affect my US CITIZEN SPOUSE - AOS GREENCARD process and result in deportation ?

They could go after you. It definitely helps to have an attorney with you adjustment of status.

Agree with above answer. She can go to any US city

Can you drive with a restricted license in New York to move from your apartment to a new apartment?

If you had an attorney, ask them. You have to follow the conditions of restrictions especially time restrictions.

My I-485 was reopened after been denied due to not showing up for my interview. My question is what should I be expecting next?

Your wife will need to appear otherwise you have no basis for relief under these facts

You have children with him. Highly doubt they will say marriage was fake.

When I was 17, I was caught shoplifting, what are the odds of me getting approved for a US Citizenship?

I agree with the above attorney's answer. USCIS could deny you based on the arrest. You also don't say whether you plead guilty to something. If...