You definitely need to take care of your Suffolk County bench warrant. You could end up in a loop going between courts.

Will my friend get arrested for shoplifting ?

If they get the plate and report to the police, it's possible they make an arrest.

Starting I-130 (for spouse of green card holder) and questions about next steps.

They can be done at the same time. It is much better to do this process with an attorney, with all the legal issues of the public charge rule going...

What is the likelihood of bail when going to vacate an old driving without a license, failure to appear bench warrant?

Bail shouldn't be set based on these facts alone. It's always better to hire an attorney who can communicate with the court for you.

How do I handle a neighbor who deals pot from the building, and has a history of threatening me with a knife?

You need to keep calling 911 if he does it again. You could go to the precinct and explain it keeps happening and get a police report

Usually take 7-14 calendar days. My last one was 6 days a few weeks ago.

My former employer refused to give me lunch breaks or 10 minutes breaks or pays me overtime.

You definitely should consult with an employment attorney. You need to do this quickly because this happened several years ago.

I agree with the previous attorney. In order to sue, you would have to show the termination was discriminatory or wrongful in violation of a law.

(NY/PA/MA) Could I get charged with harassment or making a threat?

One message about Karma is likely not a crime. Anything with threats of assaults or verbally abusive could be criminal. Also, multiple harmless...

Do I need to submit Form I-693 with my I-485 application?

Agree with the above. There is a chance it will delay your case if they request in advance.