I am a naturalized U.S. citizen and I am married to a U.S. Citizen and I'm sending for my son to join me in New Jersey

If your son is overseas, there will need certain steps to be taken before your son becomes a citizen. Read eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a

I am asylum seeker, i came to US in 2011 seeking political asylum. I am married and have daughter (4 years old).

You should be able to simply amend your application.

I aged out for my green card

It is impossible to answer your question without knowing who and when and how sponsored you; how old you were, etc. Meet with an attorney to...

If social security is paid from my paycheck, how do I access it when my L2 visa expires & I leave the States?

Check this out: http://www.irs.gov/Individuals/International-Taxpayers/Social-Security-Tax---Medicare-Tax-and-Self-Employment

I131

You will have to return your I 131 at the oath ceremony. Here is a tip about address change: most likely it will be mailed to the original address...

Immigration i485

Call Immigration customer service; make an info pass or hire an attorney to handle this for you. Good luck!

Do most people get to do their naturalization ceremony the same day in Newark, NJ?

Yes, if there are no issues with the application and the test.

Criminal defense /ticket lawyer should help you with the ticket. As far as his legalization, you need to have an Immigration lawyer for that. This...

Can I apply for citizenship instead of renewing my card? Can being married to a citizen help me speed my application? How?

If you don't want to consult with an attorney regarding this, visit www.uscis.gov website; it has pretty good resources as to how and when to apply...

If one entered the USA legally but visa expired 2013, does that person still have the right to be here?

It depends on the status and I 94. You need to consult with an attorney as to the adjustment details. Depending on all the factors, you guys may...