Request to resend the verification code. The system is glitchy.

Consult with an attorney in the field about a possibility of an interlocutory appeal.

No, the trial court is not bound to follow the other district's ruling, but may use it as a persuasive legal authority. Does not have to, but may.

At the appointment the officer will check her ID and will make an entry in the computer that she showed up.

Consult with an attorney that handles asylum from your country. It matters a lot on what grounds asylum is withdrawn.

Yes, you may re-file. This time, hire an attorney to do the unilateral I-751.

Judge will set your case for the merits hearing. If you proceed without an attorney, your hearing will be rather soon, at whatever date that opened...

You do not need to wait for any USCIS's action. You may apply for EAD any time you are ready.

Your harm is self inflicted, which is typical for people self-representing in immigration field. It would be much better for you to enter on the B...

FOIA request on the form G-639. https://www.uscis.gov/records/request-records-through-the-freedom-of-information-act-or-privacy-act