What can I do with bad custody situation

Yes - principal among the things you should do is file a modification petition. You should start keeping a paper-trail with the mother confirming...

Can I move out of state with my 19 yr old even when the divorce from 6 yrs ago claims I cant move more than 25 mls from father?

Generally yes, unless your agreement says something different about it extending beyond 18. A "child" is emancipated for custody/visitation...

What will happen to my finical situation if I file for divorce described in the section below?

(a) Most likely neither, though she may be entitled to 5 years worth of mortgage principal being paid down during the marriage. (b) Most likely...

Do I have to still pay child support?

You have to continue to pay child support, quite simply because a court has ordered that you do so. Visitation is another issue - you'd need to...

Th respondent moved from known appartment, and might leave the country,how do I serve court summons on a child custody issue??

If she filed the custody petition, then either her address would be listed on the petition - or it would be listed as "confidential," meaning you'd...

Can I put in a petition for visitation for my younger children to get visitation with their half sister

It depends on many factors as the law is evolving in this regard. One of the principal factors is whether the child sees you as her parent &...

You are entitled to a share of his pension as same accrued value during the marriage. He may argue, however, that your share should be reduced...

My ex husband told me hes stopping child support when my son turns 21. we live in new york

Yes, he can stop the support. The law in New York only obligates a parent to pay child support until 21 - unless there's a valid written agreement...

Could the father of my unborn child get to be in our life its domestic violence upon me?

You may file for an order of protection and/or report him to the police. That said, he would otherwise be entitled to visitation rights - the...

Can I get arrears paid from my ex husband's pension or annuity? He is in a union in NYC and is typically delinquent with CS also

Unless the annuity or pension is in pay-out status (doesn't sound like it), then they are assets which cannot be garnished. Your better bet is to...