I need legal representation by Monday morning for family court

Hmmm... a little late - but I hope you called someone.

Can mom divorce dad who has alzheimers without him being involved?

No, and no. You can't represent anyone unless you're an attorney. Your father will have to have a guardian appointed to represent him and the...

Consult a local attorney ASAP... that attorney will know how to move your case forward.

On what grounds can I as a woman receive spousal support or a portion of his future earnings?

He probably has been claiming his project will be funded for quite some time, right? You don't get spousal support based on your status as a...

Can appeals judge final decision in divorce in Florida, stop the decision actions?

You need to discuss the situation in detail with a local attorney who does appeals.

How can i stop jucge finala decision in divorce and extend the process?

You need to consult with a local lawyer who does appellate work.

Do I have to respond to a petition for a divorce

Yes!

Wages garnished, filing for divorce, can I enter in the self prepared paperwork for spouse to reimburse me amount paid by me?

If you don't know the answer to this question you probably should not be trying to get a divorce by filling out paperwork that you don't...

My husband purchased a vacation home for both myself and he. He has now filed for divorce and my question is can he legally let

That would be a silly thing for him to do - but you should discuss the situation in detail with a local attorney.

What does it mean when you file for a divorce and theres no judgement

It means you didn't do it properly...which is often the case when individuals who are not attorneys try to file complex legal paperwork.