After being incarcerated for 8 yrs what are your right as far as regaining your possessions from spouse your a seeking divorce

That can't be answered from the limited information posted. Consult a local attorney and discuss the situation in detail.

How do i fil out Form FL-141

If you can't figure it out - you need the help of a local attorney.

Yes.

Married a Vet in CA 1977. Two sons. Found out after his death on 11/11/12 he was still married. His wife divorced him 08/1983.

Unless someone has declared it otherwise, yes. But it may be vulnerable to attack.

Divorce in NYC

Your lawyer should be giving you advice on this - and it will depend upon where you are in the process.

Is the wife entitled to support if the husband is out on a nypd disability pension?

That's not enough information on which to base an answer.

My ex wants to reduce my spousal support.......

That's not enough information on which to base advice. If you get a petition, bring it to a local attorney and discuss the situation in detail.

Is there a PA law that forbids my daughters father from listing his girlfriend as our daughters step mother?

Yes, it's improper. On the scale of major problems, it's not that big - but it obviously isn't the right way to do things.

Adult child's right to visit terminally ill parent II

The rules of the hospice are what would seem to control.

My wife and I have been living separated and she is applying for public assistance in which she needs to legally be separated

No. You need a full separation agreement, which has to be properly executed and filed with your local county clerk.