How do I get a copy of my response to the charges made by my wife in her divorce petition, and how much does it cost?

Go to the courthouse, get the file and make a copy... you'll have to pay for the copy.

Do I have to give money to her too,because she doesn't work?

The answer isn't that simple. It depends upon an analysis of the finances of the marriage, the length of the marriage and the ability of the other...

Is it to late to get an annulment? And how do I go about that, if I do.

Annulment is only possible if there was fraud in the inducement to marry. You can, however, file for a divorce.

If he visits NY, can I have him served here even though he lives in Pennsylvania or does he have to be served in Pennsylvania?

He can be served anywhere. But you can't do it - at all, regardless of where he's served.

I am going to get a divorce how does it work is it a 50/50 split in divorce? What are my entitlements

New York does not divide 50-50 automatically - the system is called "equitable distribution" - and what is equitable will depend upon a lot more...

In the event of a divorce, how can I protect my 25% share of the house? Could we set up an LLC or FLP to avoid a prenup?

The critical factor is that the property was owned prior to the marriage. However, that does not necessarily protect it fully, neither would an LLC...

I live NY ex lives in AZ Can I sue for arrears and is our agreement for retirement noncollectable due to he breach of contract ?

You have a statute of limitations problem.

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Does cheating spouse have the right to ask for spousal support and half of our coop cost and how can she be thrown out of house?

One of the things you'll learn is that in a divorce anyone can ask for anything. Asking and getting are two different things. But spousal...

Can I still get spousal support from my husband if I file 7 years after we have been apart been married for 27 years

It's going to be hard to establish the need for support if you haven't had any in the past seven years - but you should discuss the specifics of...

Can I still get a divorce? My pastor said it is still legal.

The marriage license isn't the issue. You can get a divorce - you may need the assistance of a local attorney.