Filed for divorce 10 yrs ago, can I verify online for Fairfax County, VA if it in fact is final? Getting married next month!

http://www.courts.state.va.us/caseinfo/

I have been married for 51 years & separated for the last 15 years (but not legally). How do I proceed with a divorce?

Not necessarily - but under some circumstances it can happen. You should consult a local attorney and discuss the situation in detail.

My divorce lawyer is doing everything in her power to not finish my case. We had a PC after 9 months.

If you're not satisfied with her services you always have the ability to change attorneys. But it always is good to discuss the situation directly...

My ex is threatening to sue for money that was verbally agreed upon during the divorce proceeding but stated in the divorce agre

If it's not in the agreement, assuming that the agreement is properly drafted with appropriate release language, it's not a debt on which he can...

How do you calculate the settlement for the appreciation of the value of a home in a divorce?

That depends source of the funds by which the home was purchased, the payment of the mortgage during the marriage, if any, and several other factors.

The Office of Court Administration and/or the New York State Commission on Judicial Conduct

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Could someone please tell the the forms to be filed out for me to file for my husband,

To file for doing what?

Divorce & financial responsibility

It's not clear that you will be able to make changes to the agreement - you should have it reviewed by an attorney to see if you have any options....

Divorce and alimony?

It's unlikely that alimony would be awarded in a short term marriage.

What state do I use to file a QDRO? The state of the executied divorce or where I currently reside?

1) Each pension plan has its own requirements for QDROs. The documents must meet those requirements as well as those of the law of the state in...