Spouse didn't like divorce judge's decree (not a formal ruling), so she filed Small Claims case against me

Check your divorce decree and settlement papers to see if the claims are waived or otherwise handled - in which case the small claims judge should...

Not having attorneys involved now is a relatively sure fire way to get attorneys involved later when she says her waiver was not knowing and was...

Divorce and Custody Outcome

There's no way to answer that question without a full analysis of the situation. You should get legal help quickly.

If I'm seperated from my wife and she lives elsewhere. And I have the kids and house is she legally obligate to help pay mortgag

Not unless there's an order requiring her to do so.

Divorced

Yes.

On a divorce if i dont respond and default does the courts do what is asked in the documents filed?

The court will grant a default and you will lose your rights if the plaintiff follows through properly.

How to impute income to my wife

You can't impute income - only the court can.

Can I file a motion of contempt for matters concerning my divorce even though I have moved out of State?

Contempt? For what? And no, any motion of that sort would have to be in the court that heard the divorce.

How long do you have to hold onto your ex's property after divorce?

Contact her attorney and ask what the attorney wants done with it.

Im not living with my wife, we live in different house, we are separated but not divorce. i have to enroll her in my insurence?

No.