Before filing a divorce

You should retain a divorce lawyer to deal both with the custody issues and the divorce process.

How do i know if my american husband is really divorced?

Ask for a copy of the divorce papers.

I married a girl that cheated on me and got pregnant and lives with the other guy after only 1 month of marriage

Sounds like you need to speak to a local divorce lawyer.

Arrested

If you've been arrested you should speak with a criminal attorney. One will be appointed by the court if you can't afford to hire one.

Can i get custody of my kids if my ex wifes husband abused them.

It's possible that you can - but one fact alone isn't enough on which to base a decision. It would require a petition in Family Court.

Is it legal to have a boy of 14 and a girl of 11 years old sleeping in the same bedroom ?

Whether it's legal or not, it isn't a very good idea. But sometimes it's necessary.

What happen if my ex mail me a letter havin an oder protecion?and how much jail time they would do?

There's no way to estimate that - it's quite possible there would be no jail time involved - but it depends upon the order, the judge and the...

Can I get a divorce from my husband and can I sell the house without his permission/cooperation. What type of Lawyer is req'd?

You can seek a divorce in New York's court system if you have been a resident of New York for the past two years. There's no way to accurately...

Custody determinations are based on the best interest of the child. Yes, ordinarily you have to pay your attorney. Divorces are in the jurisdiction...

You can seek court appointed counsel (which may or may not be granted) and poor person's status at the Supreme Court in St. James. Custody would be...