How long does a executor have to probated a will ?

File for probate (you should get a lawyer for this).

How to over turn the courts decision and get my home back?

Go to the Probate court and bring an action to have the Will (if thee is one ) probated. Your aunt has no right to take over his assets.

Can one beneficiary give up potion of her interest and give it to another beneficiary in the Trust?

She can always make a gift of these assets. She could also disclaim the assets by filing with the court . In which case they would go to you and...

I would try to tak all money in the joint accounts. It is unlikely creditors can claim them under the law of New Jersey.

Did she have a Will? Whether or not shed did, you should consult with a probate attorney admitted in Pennsylvania

Can we evict a tennant when she files a restraining order against her boyfriend or other tennant?

This may be very difficult since in most states evictions are restricted because of COVID

Where do I directly go and call in before so I can file abandonment papers?

You might try the local social services agency. I think getting rid of your parent arrangemnt might be difficult for someone who is sixteen,...

I could handle this matter, so can many others.