How do i as the mother ger shated cusyody with primary residece?

The facts that you lay out are confusing. If you have the child for 5 days a week why do you say that he has primary residential custody. Is...

Since you will be in Court, you will have the right to speak and make any corrections necessary.

The state is representing me, he should up for court once, had another date and then it was changed again. He claims illness

I agree. If he continues not to appear, the Court can and likely will enter a default. This means that you win automatically.

I have full /sole custody of my kids

I agree wth my colleagues. You have to get consent or get a Court order.

I agree with my colleagues. In Queens there used to be lawyers there to answer questions pro bono ( for free) I am not sure if that still exists. ...

I agree with my colleague. Consult an attorney.

My attorney has been giving me excuses for not getting child support for two years. Why?

I agree with my colleague. If you are not getting answers that make sense from your attorney you should seek a second opinion. Good luck.

How do I write an audit request letter to child support?

I agree with my colleagues. There is a method of appealing what monies they have taken. It is however a long process.

I have I have a case coming up this month in Family Court for non-payment of Child Support so is contempt of court what should ?

Is the appearance for contempt or a violation. There are some Counties in New York that have free legal clinics. I suggest you start there. Also...

Can I be arrested for not paying child support? I can't pay child support because unemployed but court refused to modify.

No one can come to your house and arrest you for a failure to pay child support. There will have to be a contempt hearing and you will have to be...