21 yrs married w/3 grown kids under 22 & an illegitimate 5yr old child from my husband, a home, what am I entitled to in a div?

He may have to pay you alimony but your children are emancipated and would not get child support. You may have to sell the home or one could buy...

How do I formally withdraw a petition of protection?

If it is temporary and dismissed or withdrawn it will not remain on her record. You can file a motion to withdraw or appear in court and ask that...

What is the difference from 6 months irreconcilable differences and a 18 months separation paper.

It does not matter. You filed and it is moving along.

Can I start a quadro ? Can I remarry and still receive the pension benefits from my ex

Yes. If it is part of the judgement of divorce it should be done ASAP.

Can my stepfather apply for my greencard even if he married my mother after I turned 18?

It will be denied. .............................

Husband in jail.. immigration question

You can get divorced. Just file.........

Can my girlfriend and her 5yr old leave my before her court date Monday?

Leaving before the court date without court permission will not go well for her. She needs to file a petition for relocation.

Can ?

Technically, yes....................

You need to be very careful. Unless you have a prescription for the marijuana your child can be removed from your custody.

How to remove a biased judge?

You have little chance of getting the judge removed.