It should be counted. Make sure it is accounted for.

You can ask but it is not your charge to drop it is the states case against him.

How do I get to see my child for the holidays ?

You should have an attorney. If ACS is unwilling to allow a third party supervisor and make sure you have visits you may want to file a motion.

Pick up at the daycare?

You do not have to allow the grandmother to be able to pick up from daycare. If she harasses you file a petition for a restraining order.

Can my daughters father take her out of state for the weekend even though I said no we have joint custody He has temporary Resid

If he gives you notice and contact information and an itinerary he can. You do not have the ability to give him permission and he can not give you...

When & how long is it before I get a permanent order put in place?

It can take a while. Several appearances or even after a trial.

I have a restraining order with my son's mother. When we got supervised visitation. I messaged the mom about it. Is that bad?

You have to follow the restraining order strictly. If not you will be violated.

Can Child Support take out money out both jobs

They can take from both jobs if you have arrears.

Is it possible to have the child support drop after it have been passed ?

You need to go back to court and she needs to ask to have the order dropped.

II am scheduled to be in court November, i live in monroe county and court is a 6 hour drive from where I live. Have no money.

File a request for telephone appearance. So you would not have to travel and can appear by phone.