What are a parents rights??

You need to speak to counsel. But if the money is in your name, then you can do what you wish.

Does the custodial parent or the NYS CSU petition for a violation of arrears and my daughter is 21.

You need to speak with an attorney regarding your situation. There are more details that need to be flushed out.

Please speak to your attorney for more specific advice regarding your situation.

I have a friend that lost her kids to the state back in 2011 the case is close. And she can't ever see her kids.

Without any information its impossible to give any response.

If a father signs a paper and get it notarized. Signing all his rights to the mother. Is that a binding legal contract?

Speak to counsel. If this is something that you are interested in, then there is a way to make this happen. Get an agreement drafted, and then you...

Can his first order of child support be modilized if other orders are now added??

He can try. You need to speak to counsel.

How long after my divorce do I have to split up my pension and annuity-Can I wait to file the report?

You need to do it asap or it may cost you more.............

Can I hire a private investigator with a consent order with civil restraints?

It sounds like you are playing with fire. Don't do anything without speaking to counsel. You don't want to get arrested.

As counsel said, it should take no more than 30 days. Good luck.

My wife lives overseas and is refusing to give me her address to serve the divorce papers. How can I divorce her?

You need to hire counsel, and then file a motion seeking alternative service. There are ways to serve her in other fashions if done properly. You...