Am I able to take a vacation to North Carolina from New Jersey with my daughter in a joint custody case?

If there is no Order saying no, it seems that you would be able to do so. If you are in middle of a case, I suggest you speak to counsel before you...

Can I 'short sell' my condo which is discharged in Bankruptcy (2010) and has a lien?

As counsel said, you should speak to counsel to discuss your speficis case.

MMy husband get into a accident with MTA Bus had disc surgery. Am i entitled to half his settlement

Generally not, although there are a few exceptions. Speak to your attorney.

Yes I would like to know what forms should I fill out to invite my fiance h?

You really should speak to an immigration attorney.

I really think you need to speak to counsel asap to see if the agreement is legitimate or not, and see how to proceed.

What can I do if my wife declines to want to amend our separation agreement?

You should speak to an attorney to see if the agreement is valid. I'd proceed from there.

Can my ex force me to list the home and show it while I'm still living in it

You need to follow the Court order, if the order does not include it, then you don't need to add new items. I'd advise you to speak to counsel.

What's DA worst for a class b misdemeanor for false impersonation?

It really depends on the circumstances. Please speak to your attorney.

Can my soon to be ex husband get custody of our daughter if he finds out I'm dating a level 2 sex offender?

You have to make choices in life, and this is your choice. However, Sex offenders are the lepers of the 21st Century. Your ex may make a petition...

If a non custodial parent gets a child support credit for visitation travel do i need to help pay for his travel.

You really need to have someone review your agreement/order to see what is included or not included in the order.