There is no such thing as an instant divorce. You would need to file an action in either NJ, or the state in which has jurisdiction over her, and...

I'm at a house that is abandoned

Its hard to understand how to help since no question was asked.

Am I able to terminate my child support ?

You need to petition the court to suspend child support, and even request support from her.

How much would a lawyer charge to write a binding contract?

It really depends on the length and time put into it. Please speak to an attorney.

Will my bench warrant effect me in family court

Yes it will................................Take care of it now......................

Its unclear what you want amended. If you want the visitation schedule amended, you need to either agree with him and can submit an order on...

Can my husband do this?

Please speak to an attorney asap. You need to "lawyer up". That's the best advice anyone can give you. Protect your family. Protect yourself.

After serving my spouse she has not taken any legal action against me What can I do now ?

Your attorney should file an uncontested divorce and move on default. If you need judicial intervention it may get more complicated, and you need...

Can I take my child on a weekend vacation without permission?

You need to review the Court order and see if it conflicts. If it does not then you can. If he is not taking his visitation you can petition the...

What can I really do about this situation?

Well if he is the father, then he is responsible to take care of the kid, just like any of the others. I strongly suggest you seek counsel from...