IF I FILE A POLICE REPORT CAN THE POLICE HELP ME RECOVER IT AND SHOULD I FILE IN MY TOWN OR THE PERSON THAT HAS IT?

You may be able to file a police report for criminal possession of stolen property. The police may also call the issue a civil matter.

Can I be forced to testify? If I am, how can I ensure that my address and contact info are kept secret?

You can be forced to testify be via subpoena. Your address should not be disclosed to the defense.

Can I still enlist?

It does not sound like you were arrested or received a summons. Did you ever appear in court or plead by mail? If not, there is probably no law...

If you have never been in trouble before there is a very good chance you will be offered an ACD, which means the case will be dismissed and sealed...

What should I do to protect myself - Called ex at her office by mistake when order of protection was in place.

You should tell your attorney all of the facts and not write anything else in a public forum like this. BEst of luck.

Can I follow up with the PD on what next? Will he able to obtain a non jail time for first time run with the law?

Of course you can talk to your lawyer. He or she should answer any question you have. The outcome depends on specific facts that you should discuss...

Am I/can I be in any kind of legal trouble? If I travel abroad, might I be denied re-entry in the country?

It is not illegal to get a massage. If something else was involved you should consult with an attorney.

How do I get a public defender?

That is a great question. When you show up for court a lawyer will be appointed for you if cannot afford d one.

Will the detective be making an arrest?

Yes, it sounds like he will be arrested. He should seek a defense attorney immediately.

Immigration, visa with disorderly conduct

Have you already pleaded guilty? If not, you Shull ask your lawyer why an ACD wasn't offered and why so many days of community service.