In 1985 I got a ticket never went to court ?

Putting a question mark at the end of a statement does not make it a question. Do you have one?

Can a school board member share your email address or name with a public citizen without your permission?

.........I see no legal issues with it

I reached out of settlement with a lawyer representing a firm and instead of paying the settlement, he asked me to sign W-9

It does not seem right, no. Sue to enforce the contract they made with you.

I would like to know if the below situation falls under Breach of Confidentiality & Slander

I don't see a breach of confidentiality as any charges are public. And an officer changing his mind about filing charges is not unusual. If you...

Can community service be given in lieu of paying my fine in court in Atlanta?

In NJ you could get a payment plan, and if you didn't keep it trade a day in jail for each 50 dollars or part.

My daughters school refuses to let her walk from school alone. She is ten years old and in fifth grade. Is this legal?

I don't see an issue with the school's behavior here.

HHow do I get court documents from a 1993-1994 child custody case on line?

If it is not online you cannot get it online. If it is before they digitized the documents you will have to hope they exist, and they can find...

Ignore it. Taking legal advice from the lunatic who mailed you the letter? That would make you crazy too.

Can estoppel be applied in this scenario?

It is not your money and you should have known. Much more likely a concept is "unjust enrichment"

It depends. Mostly on whether the house is held jointly.