My father passed away w/o a will in NY. His estate is valued over $30,000. Is it a petition for letters of administration I file

Not trying to insult you, but you have an estate worth 30,000 and maybe more. But you can't afford a lawyer. You need one.

Regarding Real Estate- I want to hire another attorney and drop my RE agent. What is the most professional way to do both?

Be careful here. If you don't have an agent the seller's agent will not pay his commission, possibly causing you to have to pay it out of pocket....

My ex wife is asking me t o help pay for our 23 year old sons college student loans that are in her name.

It will be difficult for her to force you to pay for college that has already occurred. But not impossible, so be sure to defend anything she takes...

My X husband has Court order child visitation every other weekend. Our 9 year old refuses to go.

Telling your daughter that Dad is going to send you to jail will not likely help you either when this is complained of to the court. What you can...

You paid a lawyer in part to get you past the morons.

Can I get back what I loss

Not sure what you are asking. A couple of hundred dollars to an exterminator, or buying a couple of bug bombs at Home Depot, pretty much eliminate...

Filing bankruptcy and letting my house go!

If you have a good lawyer who has figured out a way you can keep a home you would not normally have been able to keep, thank him. But we are not...

My 16 year old cousin assaulted her mother - gave her a concussion.

Any of a number of things at the discretion of the prosecutor.

BeetlejuiceNeighborhood seems like a curse or bad hex at times. What kind of evidence woul to sue for harassment w/o a body cam?

An element of any lawsuit is that you need some evidence (not just a suspicion) of who does what you charge them with doing. So witnesses, camera...

If my cousin have residental custody of my children can I claim them on my taxes?

Unless your cousin is an accountant or tax attorney who will sign your return I suggest you go to one to prepare your taxes, complicated by their...