Is 4 consecutive clean urines enough to persuade judge to hold off on adoption process

There must be more than just marijuana causing potential termination of parental rights. Given that you are entitled to an attorney if you cannot...

If your marriage didn't last a year,and you been separated for over 20 plus year,and you can't afford to pay for a divorce ?

Although there is no question here you do a right to file for divorce. Unfortunately, there are no legal services attorneys available.

Alimony payments 71 years old poor health

If you are asking about modifying alimony and if your facts are true then yes you should ask.

Can I have a family court judge court order counseling between my child's father and I to enable communication and co parenting?

Yes you can but a judge may order parenting classes and skills too.

Will me inheriting a large amount of money, change what my X is paying in child support?

Yes depending upon the interest and dividends spun off.

Am I entitled to a portion of my spouses police pension he is currently getting monthly in state of nj?

Yes you would and you will if there's a divorce.

I have decided to go to a tro hearing for alleged harassment of my ex via text. What should I expect as far as the format?

You need the texts and any prior history. Also have witnesses to any events.

How can I find an attorney to help me draw up a separation in New Jersey?

You can have a separation agreement

Do I need to go thru marriage counseling before petitioning for divorce in New Jersey?

No, you do not need to undergo marriage counseling. But if you have children, you will not be able to move to another state without a court order...

Yes it is possible however it is important to know your background, the other parents background, and the concept behind graduate school.