If my ex asks probation for a reduction in child support or alimony payments & arrears because now unemployed will I be notified

Yes you will be notified and you should fight the reduction attempt.

The arrears remain due and owing and are reduced to a judgment for you.

The vacation schedule should trump the regular schedule of parenting time.

What is the median between supervised visitation and terminating parental rights?

It's not termination unless there is someone else willing to step into his role as a parent.

Dropping a alimony case ? What's better for me ?

Do not do it. You likely will never get a second chance to get what you're entitled to in your divorce.

Can I file lawsuit against Judge Russo of Ocean County Court for mishandling my child support/attorney fees?

You cannot because judges have immunity from those big impediments so they can do their jobs.

Can an NCP be penalized for moving into a town with high violent crime?

Yes you can but a judge will never rule that a town is unsafe.

I want my daughter and her family to leave my house.

You can file in court or hire an attorney to send a letter on your behalf.

What will I have to do to take my children's father off child support

You can draft a consent order memorializing the terms of any agreements and then submit it to whichever judges guiding your case for review and...

Can/How do I see a Burlington County, NJ will?

A surrogate is a county official who oversees the states and wills. You were not the surrogate. If you're going through divorce, you have a right...