What is my right as a wife & benefits from a person that Abandoned & committed Adultery?

Emotional distress is very hard to prove in court. You should stay with the arguments about support and equitable distribution.

Child support ? NJ. Can i have the arrears wiped clean.

You will have difficulty getting a retroactive reduction.

Should I pay half for my husband's forensic account even though I work?

If that’s the only way you should do it then argue later for repayment.

Lawyers are not permitted to take percentages of monies recovered.

It may be something handled in your agreement or if not filing a motion in Court to decide.

Does a 15 year old get to choose which parent to live With?

The child will have a say but not the final vote.

Is alimony in New Jersey for life?

No it’s not true and can be modified.

What are the holiday parenting time requirements ?

Holiday and vacation parenting time take precedent over regularly scheduled time and there is no make up time.

What will happen if both parties sign a lease and one part is trying to get the other out by filing for a TRO.

You can defend yourself from that type of situation if he locks you in a room. You should also ask a judge to decide what to do about the lease.

Can I fight for the rights to claim one of my son's and also stop her from trying to move out of state. We do have joint custody

You need to file a response to her request to move out of state. If you were paying child support, it is hard to understand why you would not be...