If I leave the state with my child can his father come take him

You need to file a motion to relocate out of state

MY daughter is disabled and has a 1yr old the husband was ordered to pay child support and he got another women pregnant

If you were seeking child support from him, you can serve him at his last known address and get a judge to agree that doing so was proper service.

How can I get my house back?

You need to file an enforcement motion to obtain compliance

No you can’t because that court rule says you can’t b

What kinda of trouble is someone in for harrassment?

Not much if there is no restraining order

It is marital on it and subject to equitable distribution.

Do I have to pay half of boarding for daughters pony?

No you don’t need to pay for it. You didn’t agree to it.

She has no further rights to funds than you do.

When a spouse makes a large purchase and only her name is on the charge, is the other spouse also responsible for payment?

Yes if it’s during the marriage in most cases.

You should keep paying until The divorce.