Is it normal dyfs

Yes it is normal. You should cooperate insure they get the investigation done promptly and thoroughly.

Can I file a motion to modify parenting time and not have my son's father be designated as the "PAR"?

PAR is a child support designation. It really doesn't have a lot of meaning for your concerns. The bigger issue is present your concerns by way of...

I think your going to have to file a motion to ask the Court to compel her to take your child to her activities or allow you to do so if she won't....

You have to be able to demonstrate that he has the ability to pay the arrears.

Am I obligated to sign off on a personal agreement with my child's father for cs arrears reduction

You are not obligated to sign an agreement but if you do not come to terms it sounds like the second lump sum payment will not be made and you'll...

The support is not automatically allocated between the two children so even when one is emancipated, without an allocation, probation will continue...

One year is a decent rule of thumb. Of course, some go shorter or longer but again a reasonable gauge is a year.

Am I getting alimony?

Based upon the information provided, it is impossible to say. The length of your marriage would suggest you would have a claim but no financial...

What is the penalty if any for moving children to a different school without advising the court or other parent

I'm not sure how the parenting schedule relates to the change of district but if what you say is accurate that the court requires her to seek...

Can I get a temporary restraining order to keep the neighbor from talking to me and my family?

The lack of familial connection between you and the neighbor prevents you for qualifying for protection under the domestic violence statute but you...