Run, don't walk to a qualified elder law attorney. you don't have to name mom as dad's agent. Mom, though she has diminished capacity, MAY have...

Does N.J. preclude an adopted sibling from inheriting from a biological sibling? please answer yes or no?

Generally adopted is treated like blood.

If me and my siblings are beneficiaries of parent's life insurance, how can I pay funeral costs first then have balance split??

I wouldn't worry about the taxes, may not be any. Very easy to mess up, a competent attorney can help

Is there an attorney in Union County NJ who is willing to assist me in contesting a will?

Larry Friedman is an excellent attorney, and there are others who are also excellent - i'd suggest you do your due diligence, look around, and...

How long do I have before I need to probate an estate.?

what are the assets within the estate?

Can I have half of the money in a joint bank account?

unless you can show you contributed the money it is all deemed his, and you taking 1/2 is like him gifting you 1/2 and all the penalties that...

Will they need a probate lawyer to transfer a home deed into the dad's estate?

you have a lot of moving parts - your best bet is a consult with a qualified attorney. note, if there are already IRS issues then moving the deed...

When can I get the original document of my irrevocable trust in New Jersey ?

Your trust, or a family member’s Trust? Did you sign, or only see drafts? I’m having trouble understanding your question.

Can the beneficiary of an ILIT change the contingent beneficiary?

You need an experienced attorney to review the trust and situation.

How can I claim any beneficiary entitlement as the eldest son of deceased father ?

you can apply to be the administrator of the estate. you should contact a local attorney for help.