I've heard its nearly impossible to get a decent plea deal in nassau county ny,

This is an answer only your attorney can give you for certain. Too many facts, which you have left out, go into making the "trial or no trial"...

Should I pay my Civil Demand if I'm living out of the state where the "shoplifitng" incident happened?

I would give you basically the same advice. Only pay the civil demand if it is a necessary part of a plea bargain.

I agree with my colleague that you should consult an attorney as soon as possible. Minor or not, how the court and the prosecutor will treat you...

If a person is fried for a reason which he or she wasnt concivted for and your boss tells all employees you were fired for that

You may have a defamation claim, and possibly an employment claim, but proving the allegations could be difficult.

I live with some one but i am not on the lease. if they are evicted do i have to move because i am not on the lease?

Yes, of course you will. You have no relationship or agreement with the landlord, so you will be kicked out when he is evicted.

I was arrested in petit larceny case in New York and the case has been dismissed with A.C.O.D. Will the criminal record shows up

It will not show up on a regular background check unless it becomes a conviction. Please note, however, that an ACD is not a dismissal. It is a...

My husband was convited 20 years ago of 2nd degree consipary to sell which gave him a felony will this show up now.

Yes. It will appear.

I have a hearing scheduled to try and get my order of protection dismissed? Do i need an attorney for this?

I agree with Ronald. You need a lawyer. It is a big uphill battle, as the defendant, to convince the court that it should rescind or modify its...

What would be my outcome for seccond degree trespassing and its also my first offense?

Please provide more information if you want helpful answers. It is not clear what the facts are here.

Can probation prevent me from visiting my husnband in another state

it sounds as if you have an order of protection which requires one of you to keep away from the other. Assuming that is true, it would be the...