He needs to file a motion to terminate or decrease his support based upon the current circumstances. The longer he waits, the worse it gets.

What rights as a non custodial parent do I have regarding visitation?

You need to obtain a court order directing the time and manner of parenting time. Then, If she violates it, you call the police and make a record...

m us citizen .i want to divorce with us citizen husband . I have 1 child .can I country out after divorce and take my child .

If your spouse objects to removing the child from NJ, you will need to convince the court to grant you the right.

I am on my last few dollars my husband filed for divorce but I can’t afford to rebuttal ?

You can’t afford not to be represented. I suggest you speak to family or friends. There are substantial rights associated with a 23 year marriage.

Can I file different motions at the same time?

File all the prayers for relief in one motion. The court will consolidate them even if you don’t.

Who go after the other party to collect lawyer fees since I won?

If you have the lawyer chase him, he will charge you for the time spent.

Will another state help me?

Aside from appealing or filing a new motion on new facts, there isn’t much you can do.

How do i find out if he was even able to get married?

They do not run a check. He should check with the clerks office in the county he was married, or even call the church or other place the ceremony...

Is abandonment a crime? What would it do for divorce settlement? Any advantage for spouse who is being abandoned?

It has no relevance. NJ is a no fault state. You could claim abandonment as your cause of action but it gets you no advantage in a divorce.

Can my ex bf -who isnt the father and has not met my son ever file for custody?I know this sounds ridiculous

He can file for paternity. But if he isn’t the father, DNA testing will prove that.