Will I get in trouble for calling the cops to remove my ex from my place?

Unless vacated, the RO is permanent.

Your divorce or separation have no impact on your contractual obligations to the leasing company.

You can’t force your brother to house your Wife.

If the regular mail isn’t returned, service is presumed to be good.

Was this wise legal advice?

Hire an attorney to represent you. His drug dealing and apparent homosexual relations aren’t really relevant to an FRO hearing.

What if my father refused to pay for my college and tells that my mother's boyfriend has to do that?

Your mom’s boyfriend has no obligation. Your mom should file a motion. Your sodas is responsible to contribute.

My daughter and husband separated a year ago. in VA. She has been told she needs a VA attorney but resides in N J. True?

She must reside in NJ for 1 year to file here.

I am separated from my wife and I want to purchase a house. Is she entitle to that house if I file for divorce?

If you are still married, I’m not sure a court will recognize that it’s your “own money”. I suggest you be upfront and ask her to sign a quit...

Talk to this with your attorney. I don’t think there is any conflict of interest just because she knew both of you.

Can i do second marriage after getting x party divorce? what if she put an objection .. will my second marriage will be valid.

It sounds like she has filed a motion to vacate the Divorce. I would await the final resolution of the case before remarrying.