He will have to come up with some payment and arrangements to put the rest. It’s all in the Judge’s discretion.

Custodial parent income to determine child support

Subpoena financial institutions, and other banking records.

Custodial parent income

You can simply serve him with discovery requests. But you can also subpoena the records of the other party to a divorce from the financial...

Questions home IRA and home/passive v non passive assets

If he were day-trading the account you might have some claim that the increase was from marital effort, but very unlikely.

Can I move out of state if I’m the non custodial parent and I talk to the custodial parent ?

So long as you don’t remove the child from the state of NJ you can move. The limitation on removal applies to the child, not the parents.

You have to have a QDRO professionally prepared, approved, filed, and served on the Plan Administrator.

As the mother can i change from having my kid on weekends to having my kid biting the week?

Doesn’t sound like the father is lazy if he stepped up and assumed custody when things weren’t going well for you. Whether a court would change it...

You need to hire your husband a lawyer.

I found out that my ex is retired, I am due money from the quadRO, WHERE DO I START TO COLLECT FUNDS

Was a QDRO drafted, filed, and served on the plan administrator?

Does the state have a case?

They have a very good case. Call to police, allegation of assault, visible signs of injury. You need a lawyer.