Can I in anyway get my name off this deed and loan?

Without reading the documents, I would say it is unlikely.

Your president is not going to take the wors of an internet forum, and step dow. Retain counsel.

How do I respond to a letter from the other person involved's insurance company.

That's why you have insurance. Relax and forward the letter.

How do I determine how much the buy out should be?

Did you have a partnership agreement with any dissolution clause? If not, you need to put a value on the business. Every business is unique.

How does one go about finding and hiring a process server?

Google "California Process Server"...

To the best of my knowledge I am the only one that is being asked to perform the same duties while receiving less benefits. Is t

It depends. Is the employer's decision to do this to you discrimination against a protected class, such as age, sex, or nationality, or is there a...

Judgment for not filing paper work. Isn't a default motion required

Definitely contact the condo association. If you are able to make up the payments, and if the reason why you were unable to do so was because of...

Employment lawyer

I don't know how you "lost" the case - was it at trial in court, or before an administrative agency? If you feel you have a case for fraud, gather...

I understand he doesn't necessarily need my consent to change my wage but is he at least required to notify me first?

If you are owed wages, contact the Labor Department to file a claim.

Do I quit or wait

Why would you quit when you have a job? Life does not get any easier without a paycheck.