I was side swipe in a car the other drive is at fault she was under drug includes she when to jail what kind of settlement

You should hire a personal injury attorney ASAP.

I agree with the posts by my colleagues.

Can an auto insurance company deny a claim because they can't get ahold of their insured?

If you go through your insurance they will refund your deductible after they collect from the at fault party.

What should I do

File a claim against the drunk driver's insurance. Also request restitution in criminal case.

I moving to Oklahoma I just bought a huge fixer upper in Shawnee. But it means I must quick my job.

It will be difficult to get out of the child support obligation.

No over night quest mean? The divorce decree says no over night quest. Meening

Don't have overnight guests when your children are with you.

Can two older people getting married shield each other from the other's debt, including taxes incurred before marriage?

Yes you can do that, see an attorney about having prenup drawn up.

Can I take my son back from his grandmother after signing a voluntary order with her?

The answer depends on what the "voluntary paper" is that was signed.

Do alimony payments stop in Florida after 15 years?

What does the order say? You can file to modify it?

I would follow the excellent advice posted by my colleagues here.