I would have To continue my immigrant visa application without petitioning its poossible?

Your wife is free to revoke her petition and withhold a affidavit of financial support to you at any time during the pending green card process....

What process is needed to get my step daughter from Russia a green card.

You can apply for her right away instead of waiting for your wife's petition to be approved. Consult with an attorney for further guidance. Good luck.

What if I started my citizenship process in California and move to Arizona can I complete the process in Arizona?

Yes you can move during a pending process as long as you notify USCIS of a change of address. This can be done online.

Arrival / Departure airports different on B1 visa

No this should not be an issue as you are entering on a valid visitor visa and are free to enter and depart from your port of choosing.

You should wait for an RFE to determine what test you may need to take based on what was required when you initially took it.

What step can I take to leave for another state as an abused immigrant with my child who is a U.S citizen.

You should seek guidance and help through local law enforcement. Also depending on your status, you may be eligible to self-petition as a VAWA...

Can my mother now revisit USA on visit visa after staying in usa(nov2015-oct2016) for 1 year and then 8 months in India

She should be allowed entry through her visitor visa assuming she did not previously overstay during her last stay. Consult with an attorney for...

Yes that is correct - you are permanently barred but are nonetheless eligible to reapply for an inadmissibility waiver after 10 years.

How can i get my passport back from immigration ?

You should consult with the immigration agency that has your passport as it is very difficult to assess why your passport was taken and by whom....

Advance parole generally allows reentry while a petition is pending so you should be okay to reenter but this can never be used as a guarantee...